5 Steps To Making Up With Your Ex
A good and strong relationship has its ups and downs. A break up is sometimes even necessary just so that relationship can bloom once more. But just in case you were in very good terms with your ex before the break up, you were great together, you felt great together and it simply felt you were made for each other, chances are you won't find that again in your life. That's why in a case like this is never a bad idea to try to heal that relationship and re-unite with your ex.
Of course, you'll need a plan for it. Therefore, here's a basic, 5-steps plan.
1. Pull yourself together. In general, the pain caused by a break up is proportional with the love you had for each other. Some people are hit very hard by a break up and it may take years for them to recover. The thing is, if you want your ex back, you'll have to move fast, as he or she can put you behind much quicker than you, and move on. Therefore, don't drown yourself in booze, or fatten yourself with icecream. Take time and reflect on what went wrong, create a better future with the both of you in your mind.
2. The fix. First of all, you can't fix what is not broken. In case your relationship still stands, but you've just taken some time apart due to some misunderstandings or mistakes made by one of your, or the both of you, there's nothing to worry about. But in case you're the one who made the mistake, you need to fix yourself up. In case it's your ex that needs fixing, you can give them time, or even help them out if possible.
3. Make contact. The first contact with your ex after a break up is tricky. That's why it's best to be done over the phone. Now, if he or she picks up and you speak, try not to bring up any of the mistakes you've done or they've done. Also, try not to bring up any of your good memories together. Sometimes those may not be well received either. Make small talk, and maybe settle for a date.
4. Keep good terms with your ex. And not just with him or her, their family and friends. Of course, if in case you were the one cheating, it might be difficult, but it's still far from being impossible. Of course, don't make it look like a cheap trick to get him or her back. So, don't find ridiculous and often excuses to hand out with their friends, or visit their family.
5. The date. Once you've buried the hatchet, the best step to take is a date. It's best to choose a less private place, for a date. A walk in the park, dinner at a restaurant etc. They might not be completely ready to be alone with you, especially if its the woman we're talking about.
Now, as I said, this is a simple, basic plan to get your ex back. But each step has its own particularities and can be improved in many ways. For that, check out these extra tips: Make Up With Your Ex Secrets.
Of course, you'll need a plan for it. Therefore, here's a basic, 5-steps plan.
1. Pull yourself together. In general, the pain caused by a break up is proportional with the love you had for each other. Some people are hit very hard by a break up and it may take years for them to recover. The thing is, if you want your ex back, you'll have to move fast, as he or she can put you behind much quicker than you, and move on. Therefore, don't drown yourself in booze, or fatten yourself with icecream. Take time and reflect on what went wrong, create a better future with the both of you in your mind.
2. The fix. First of all, you can't fix what is not broken. In case your relationship still stands, but you've just taken some time apart due to some misunderstandings or mistakes made by one of your, or the both of you, there's nothing to worry about. But in case you're the one who made the mistake, you need to fix yourself up. In case it's your ex that needs fixing, you can give them time, or even help them out if possible.
3. Make contact. The first contact with your ex after a break up is tricky. That's why it's best to be done over the phone. Now, if he or she picks up and you speak, try not to bring up any of the mistakes you've done or they've done. Also, try not to bring up any of your good memories together. Sometimes those may not be well received either. Make small talk, and maybe settle for a date.
4. Keep good terms with your ex. And not just with him or her, their family and friends. Of course, if in case you were the one cheating, it might be difficult, but it's still far from being impossible. Of course, don't make it look like a cheap trick to get him or her back. So, don't find ridiculous and often excuses to hand out with their friends, or visit their family.
5. The date. Once you've buried the hatchet, the best step to take is a date. It's best to choose a less private place, for a date. A walk in the park, dinner at a restaurant etc. They might not be completely ready to be alone with you, especially if its the woman we're talking about.
Now, as I said, this is a simple, basic plan to get your ex back. But each step has its own particularities and can be improved in many ways. For that, check out these extra tips: Make Up With Your Ex Secrets.